Is 40 the new 20?

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After watching the GOAT Tom Brady in the Super Bowl I couldn’t help thinking he is at the top of his game right now at 42. I was always told 30 was the new 20, but Im beginning to think 40 the new 20. You think life is great when your 20, then life gets better when your 30 and if things only get better what’s the plateau?
Your 20’s you really get to know yourself, like all of you, you learn your preferences, and your triggers. In your 30’s you are in super self aware mode and have figured things out what’s important to you. and I gather your 40’s is when you flourish the most (without all the body aches and hospital trips).
I mean have you seen how JLo ages? Backwards and she’s 51! Halle Berry, they all age backwards but maybe the cheat code is just getting to that age.
I’m not quit 40 yet and am about to settle into my late 20’s. However some of my best friends are. Their kids are all grown and out of the house, they all have these fancy houses with pottery barn decor, their careers are set, their taking trips with cute outfits getting surgery’s just overall living life. As someone headed for their 40’s this is extremely exciting information. Most people make you feel like your life is on a downward spiral until you one day pass away. It’s great to find out we age like wine getting better with time. So keep living if this year is bad guess what, you learned! Learning about ourselves and how we can navigate through your lives. Don’t get down, you get better! Enjoy where you are in your life and trust the process.

Being successful at work/school while working and schooling from home

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We all have had to adjust recently some of us by working at home and if you haven’t, good for u, but it’s hard. It’s not impossible though, and I am here to help.

Everyone has probably told you this but first make sure to create a home office. Nothing fancy is necessary but you have to create an area with all your essentials you need for work or school. Tip: Keep things fun by getting bright colored items and things that will capture your attention. I love all things pink so my laptop has a highlighter pink case and A pink poof pen that I always forget to use but it’s cute. I love going into my office area and that’s half the battle.

Get an Agenda… I know I know you never use it. Being organized is essential to being successful. Maybe the organizer doesn’t work for you, maybe you want an oversized calendar on your desk so you can see important info, dates, and to do lists. I have an oversized 7 day calendar on the wall of my office (I tend to stand or walk in my office more than sit). I am a totally scatter brain so I have to write every idea immediately when I hear it so I also use an agenda when I remember.

Make sure your family know when you are in the office you are at work. My fiancé actually texts me while I’m in the home office and he is in the living room, because you can’t get anything done if your always distracted. Even if you write a blog you need time to focus to get your thoughts together and produce your best work.

Take a lunch. Very important to break the monotony of your work day and get a lunch. You don’t even have to spend money. I pack a lunch and eat outside most days when the weather is good. Especially during this quarantine it definitely kept me sane in the beginning.

Common mistakes

You don’t need a television anywhere close to where u are studying or doing conference calls. Shut it down, at least give yourself 2/3 hours of uninterrupted work.

Do not try to bring your computer to your bedroom, either you will fall asleep or never be able to sleep in your bed again without thinking about work. Stay out of your bedroom if you can I know it’s comfy but your trying to be productive.



Steamboat, Colorado

Overlook Trail in Steamboat

Not Just for Winter

About a 3 hours from Denver, Colorado I recommend this for an upcoming girls trip/Bach party/birthday ect. I went during the Off Season (which i highly recommend), because I would be the first one to plant face first on some skis. I stayed at the Sheraton Hotel soon to be bought out by another chain hotel. The location was great, connected to everything that you would want to do while your there. The weather was amazing, the scenery phenomenal! The people are so nice, you know its like pulling teeth getting people to say hello back to you in Vegas, here the vibe is friendly and welcoming!! Lots of cool places on the Yampa River.. great place for not only skiing but all outdoor activities.

TOP THINGS TO DO:

1 Gondola Ride- Must Do; hit up the Happy Hour On Sunday it was awesome w live music seating is a problem if you have a big group but people are so friendly you are welcome to join tables.

2 Fish Creek Falls – We saw the waterfall and hiked about 1/2 mile it was awesome! very serene and beautiful I suggest it!

3 Strawberry Park Hot Springs – amazing place totally instagram worthy only problem is… NO SERVICE. its natural so if you are looking for super clean blue ocean waters this is not for you its slimmy. but a great experience.

Hot Springs

TOP PLACES TO EAT:

Mountain Tap Brewery – Pizzas and small plates, great fresh foods.

Top of the Gondola – I had the happy hour food it was amazing the shrimp cocktail was delicious and huge, the caprese salad was good wish it had some balsamic but other than that i was very happy w it!

Aurum Food & Wine – “top rated” restaurants in Steamboat, with executive chef Patrick Funk. First, the service was terrible. I ordered the Crab Crusted Halibut, with Black Pepper Crudi, Wilted Spinach, Bacon Lardons, Heirloom Tomato, pickled Mustard Seed Parmesan and Clam Broth, for $41.00 along with the Corn Chowder Soup. The Soup was terrible, runny, not the consistency you want a chowder to be… even it was a tomato chowder. The Halibut was okay, cooked great hated the accompaniments, dint like how soggy the the Crudi got in the Clam Broth…

STEAMBOAT VIBES I LOVED:

My family and I really enjoyed it, most things you could walk to, being from Vegas we don’t see much green but the scenery was amazing! I loved the emphases on health, mind, body and spirit. It is a great place to have a bachelorette party with your closes besties. Theres tons to do and see, in a quieter off season.

JoySticks!! – love them they are made by Gardenom they are all natural I personally used mine like a honey for my coffee and i love all things.. trendy and cool! they also have calm sticks both contain CBD

Humble Bee Botanicals – I got there loose tees called Happier Days. I love it and the price was right super cool super delicious teas. another trendy buy i couldn’t live without!

There are amazing local bakeries and soda fountain shops! they exceed even the fine dining! They also offer amazing Chai/Herbal Teas – Kombucha, stuff like that.. if you love birkenstocks, Lulumeon, patagonia and morels this is the spot for you LOL!

Def Bring your Hiking Boots & Cash (Some Places only Take Cash). Over all a great place to go for a few days to get away!